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| 有缘千里来相会！You gave me the possibility to find the love of my life - Published in November, 2008 | |
| It's you who gave us a gold opportunity in life - Published in October, 2008 | | I truly hope that you all find happiness as I have - Published in August, 2008 | | Our love dream come true - I'm writing to say thank you for a great website - Published in July, 2008 | | I have a wonderful news that I would like to share with you - Published in June, 2008 | | I have made a small donation to show my appreciation and hopefully help you to continue to help other find happiness - Published in April, 2008 | | 他是最适合我的人，我觉得与他在一起我能够幸福 - Published in April,2008 | | 是晓燕书中的鼓励让我最终把握住了自己的幸福 - Published in April,2008 | | 在这个世界上没有什么可以停止你寻找幸福的脚步 - Published in January,2008 | | Thank you for making this wonderful marriage possible - Published in January, 2008 | | 当我拿到面试通知书时我流泪了 - Published in December, 2007 | | 谢谢“中诚”为我们搭建如此好的一个平台 - Published in November, 2007 | | I just want to tell you that I have met a wonderful woman off your site - Published in October, 2007 | | 只要有一种坚定不移的信心、恒心和决心，你将能得到你想拥有的幸福！- Published in August, 2007 | | We both are grateful for your site and the both of you - Published in August, 2007 | | 亲爱的“中诚”姐妹，我凭我个人经验和你们说一些心理的话 - Published in July, 2007 | | I must tell you that the Chinese people are very gracious and accepting - Published in July, 2007 | | 告诉你我的好消息 - Published in July, 2007 | | 我庆幸自己在最灰暗的时候仍对人类美好的感情抱有信心，我更庆幸自己...... - Published in July, 2007 | | 真诚地谢谢你！- Published in May, 2007 | | 我们已经结婚五年多了，感情比刚结婚的时候还好 - Published in May, 2007 | | 非常感谢晓燕让我找到了幸福 Thanks to your great website - Published in March, 2007 | | 是他让我实现了我一直只能在梦里想的事情 - 坐中国传统的花轿 - Published in March, 2007 | | 告诉你好消息，我结婚了! - Published in February, 2007 | | 我和美国老公Egel Dougles已于去年12月在中国结婚 - Published in February, 2007 | | I can tell you this is a much more powerful and consistent way to meet Chinese women - Published in January, 2007 | | Chris and I are very happy together in England - Published in January, 2007 We are so happy to tell you our good news - Published in January, 2007 |
有缘千里来相会！You gave me the possibility to find the love of my life 晓燕你好！ 首先非常感谢你的网站，让我开阔了我的交友圈子，并且成功地找到了我的男友。我和荷兰的男友已认识半年多了，在我们认识三个月后他就订了机票要来中国。最近我们在中国相处了一个月，我们相处得很好，象一见如故的老朋友。我们已经开始积极地计划两人的未来。
另外，我问男友是否公开我们的照片与其他会员分享，他比较保守不想公开照片，但写了下面的感谢信给你，再次感谢你和你的“中诚”网站，让我们有缘千里来相会！ Maggie/2042 /1855 2008年11月23日 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Asian Promise, On this way I will thank you for the use of your website. It gave me the possibility to find the love of my life. I found Maggie in China. Although it is a far way from my home country the Netherlands, it was not a big problem to visit her and to find out that we fit very well. We already have plans to get married in China and live together in the Netherlands. It will take some time to get everything fixed but we are busy to find a permanent solution to stay together. Again thank you very much. Carlo/ID2961 (Netherlands), 23 November, 2008 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | 
Nann and Ray | It's you who gave us a gold opportunity in life Dear Asian Promise, Thank you for all the information in this great website. My husband William Ray McDonald and I met each other on Asian Promise in September 2006. He came to China, visiting me in January 2007. Our love story lasted since then. We got married in June this year. My number in Asian promise was 1803, while we both forgot about his. But we do remember that it's you who gave us a gold opportunity in life. Now we are happily together and we will never forget your effort, Asian Promise. Actually I've already told some friends about your website and your high quality service. I am proud of being a good example of Asian Promise. |
Nann/1803 17 October, 2008 2008年10月17日 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I truly hope that you all find happiness as I have
Dear Dawn Xiao Yan and Richard,
I would like to thank you for your great website. I have met a very special lady thanks to Asian Promise and I am very grateful to you and your website. Without Asian Promise I would not have had the chance to meet Florence. We both were very skeptical that finding someone online was possible but thanks to you I think we both feel differently now.
Since our first contact with one another we have kept in contact with each other on a daily basis thru email, messaging and internet phone. Florence is very special to me and I feel that as more time passes we will grow even closer. I am looking forward to having a future with such a special lady.
Good luck to all members of AsianPromise.com. I truly hope that you all find happiness as I have.
Best Regards,
Jim/ID3139 (USA) & Florence/1976 ( 广洲) , August 9, 2008 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our love dream come true - I'm writing to say thank you for a great website Dear Xiaoyan,
我们于2008年6月18日在英国林肯举行了婚礼，我非常感谢“中诚”，是“中诚”让我找到了真爱。Our love Dream come true。我们在英国生活很幸福和快乐。我希望“中诚”的姐妹们都象我一样：Love Dream come true。- Xiaochuan/1852 (四川) 2008年7月13日 | Dear Xiaoyan, I'm writing to say thank you for a great website - from my side from the very start, I found your ladies honest and straightforward, with not a sign of some of the bad things that can be experienced with Internet dating. Later, I discovered how you give personal advice to your clients, and how you give individual support when it is requested.
How did I discover this? Well, Xiaochuan told me. We were married in June 2008, and have set up home in UK (after a few problems with UK visas! ) Xiaochuan was the third lady I conversed with, and she is all that I ever wished for, with traditional Chinese values.
I am so glad that I found your website, so glad that I found Xiaochuan, and so glad that I have found a new life based on old-fashioned trust, dependency and care - and of course, love!
Thank you again - Richard (UK) - 13 July, 2008 | 
Xiaochuan and Richard |
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Jane and Richard | Dear Xiaoyan,
I was your member of your web site. My ID number was 1981. First of all I would like to express my gratitude to you for your great books. I bought the book “FINDING TRUE LOVE ONLINE (在网上找到真爱)” last year. From reading this book I found many answers to natural questions, such as :is it possible to search for true love online? how can I judge he is a good person? Honestly, I was very suspicious towards finding true love online especially on across-culture before I read your book. But after I finished reading I felt I would like to experience by myself.
I met a man online later. After I talked to him for months, I felt I should go back to read your book again because I found he was not an honest person. Your book helped me to judge and I gave him up. In November, 2007 I met Richard (from USA) online. We were very cautious towards our relationship and also had serious attitude to get to know each other. He is a person who has been fascinated with Chinese culture and history since he was a little boy. In order to get more guidance, he bought your book “CHINESE WOMEN IN LOVE AND MARRIAGE (洞悉中国女性婚恋观)” on Amazon. |
Everyday we talked on web cam cell. We communicated with one another every topic that we wanted. We both fell in love and wanted to meet in person. After we talked for nearly half a year, we met in person for the first time in Beijing. We got married on May, 24, 2008 in Harbin. He is my true love in my lifetime and I am so happy to tell you the best news!
Thanks again. Best wish to you and your family, Jane/1981 (哈尔滨) 19 June, 2008 2008年6月19日 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | 晓燕，你好：
谢谢你还惦记着我们，记得在2007年11或12月的时候我们给你写过一封EMAIL，也附上了我们结婚的照片，现在看来你没有收到那封EMAIL，很抱歉。
我是在2007年的10月18好拿到的K1签证，10月24号飞往洛杉矶的，然后KRIS和我在11月3号在他父母家举行了结婚仪式，具体过程我写在我的BLOG里了，地址是：http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1281186542，文章的题目是“我的简易西式婚礼全过程”。11月6号我们经拉斯维加斯回到了爱达荷我们自己的家，开始了我们的新生活，我的BLOG里还记录了我在这里的一些生活花絮。 当初等签证时还觉得时间很慢，现在回首，感觉一切过的那么的快，朋友们都说我们很幸运，是的，我们的感情发展得出乎意料的顺利，因为我们俩个是同类的人，我们几乎从不吵架，彼此很珍惜在一起的时间，生活虽然不富裕，但很充足，我们很满意现在的现状。再次谢谢你和“中诚”，让我找到KRIS，我的另一半。在这个叫POCATELLO的宁静小城，我们生活的很幸福，Kris绝对是个好丈夫，对我体贴有加，他也会是个好父亲，嘿嘿，因为现在我是一个有六个月身孕的大肚婆，再等三个月，我们的儿子就要出生了，到时候我再给你发照片。
我也经常去你的BLOG，我很喜欢你的文章，很睿智，给了我们这里外嫁女有很多的帮助。再次感谢！！！
Annie/1808 (上海) 2008年4月26日 | 
Annie and Kris |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I have made a small donation to show my appreciation and hopefully help you to continue to help other find happiness Dear Asian Promise, Just a quick note to say thank you for providing such a wonderful service. I was a member for one month last year during which time I met a very special lady. Our relationship is now progressing very well - I have been to China to meet her and will return again in summer. I have made a small donation via your web site to show my appreciation and hopefully help you to continue to help other find happiness. Thank you again for making this relationship possible for us, and also for your book which I bought from Amazon before I joined Asian Promise - it helped give me the confidence to do this. Sincerely yours, Ian
Ian / ID2277 (UK) - 23 April, 2008
他是最适合我的人，我觉得与他在一起我能够幸福 | 亲爱的晓燕您好!
我是1930号会员Min，非常高兴能怀着激动的心情给您写这封信，因为它满载了我的希望与幸福！去年10月初我与Ian相识(他也是贵站的网上会员)，通过最初的了解，在经历了一些误会后，我们的感情渐渐加深，彼此都能感受到对方的真诚、理解、宽容与真情。本月初，他从遥远的英国飞来看我，要知道他只有一周的假期，并且他的母亲刚做了膝盖手术，他却仍然决定过来。这真让我感动！
我们都非常珍视现在的一切！大概由于我们都不是那种容易激动的人，所以做事非常谨慎而不是追求“速战速决”，我们都相信“时间”是检验感情的有效方法之一。今年夏天，也就是几个月后，他会再次来中国看我和我的父母。 现在，我决定请您删掉我的介绍，到目前为止，他是最适合我的人，我觉得与他在一起我能够幸福。
谢谢您！祝您全家幸福美满！
会员Min/1930 (四川)，17 April, 2008 | 
Min and Ian |
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Charlotte/Meijiao and Eric | 是晓燕书中的鼓励让我最终把握住了自己的幸福 晓燕你好,
终于可以告诉你一个确定的好消息了，我和Eric (ID2508)在见面一个星期之后，于2008年4月11日在南宁民政局登记结婚了。很感谢“中诚”让我遇到我生命中的真爱，也是你书中的鼓励让我最终把握住了自己的幸福。谢谢。
现附上我们旅游和结婚的相片。 再一次感谢 会员Charlotte/Meijiao/2010 (南宁)，15 April, 2008 |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 在这个世界上没有什么可以停止你寻找幸福的脚步 晓燕你好：
我是“中诚”的会员1768号 Rainbow，我现在已经来美国有6个星期了。我和我的丈夫Mac去年圣诞节在华盛顿州一个安静、优美的海滨城市登记结婚，我们即将在这里开始我们期待已久的家庭生活。之后我们开车到旧金山他妈妈家举行了婚礼。我们又去了Los Angels 度蜜月。现在我们已经回到自己温馨、浪漫的家里开始了我们的新生活。每一天的日子，我们都很开心，很快乐。一切都是那么美好，那么尽如人意。我和Mac真的很感谢你和你的“中诚”帮助我们找到了生命中的真爱。 | 我和Mac相识在06年10月，他也是“中诚”的会员。在我们经过3个多月的互通E-MAIL和MSN聊天、视频后，他第一次来北京看我。之后我们确立了恋爱关系。后来他又利用假期来中国两次看我，并且见了我的家人。这期间他已经聘请了美国的律师为我们办理赴美K1签证。在长达9个月的签证申请等待过程中，我们经历了漫长的等待，遥远的思念和许多繁琐的文件的准备。但是我们始终彼此安慰，彼此理解，彼此鼓励，彼此分享。这期间有太多的点点滴滴的事情是值得去记忆一生的。就象Mac在给我的求婚卡上所写的那样：“I want your hand in marriage. Sharing the joys, sadness, changes and discoveries. That are all of part of life. Hold you close and let you grow, to encourage your dreams and believe in you always. Give the same kind of happiness that you give me.” 我想他做到了，我们俩个都做到了。 当我于07年底最终拿到K1签证的时候，我真的有太多的感慨。我最想感谢的人就是我亲爱的Mac，感谢他的全力配合和无限的耐心，是他的爱和鼓励给了我莫大的信心，我们才能一路不畏艰难，走到今天，终修正果。我也想对所有在“中诚”的姐妹们以及所有依然在寻找着生命中真爱的人说，在这个世界上没有什么可以停止你寻找幸福的脚步，只要你还在相信，还在期待，那么就按照晓燕书上所说的“耐心+恒心”，幸福的门终究有一天会向你打开的。
在此我和我丈夫Mac再次感谢“中诚”和晓燕，希望你的网站能够为更多的姐妹搭建起通往爱的桥梁。同时在此新春佳节即将来临之际，祝福你及你的全家新春快乐，吉祥如意。 Rainbow/1768 (北京) & McClellan Smith, 28 January, 2008 | 
Rainbow and McClellan |
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Lenny and Andy | I really appreciate you for the great opportunity you provide to us! Dear Xiao Yan,
I just want to share the happiness with you! Andy have arrived in China again in the early of this month, we enjoyed our wonderful time in Lijiang, a beautiful place, where we have done many interesting things and talked much more about our plan. We will live together in the near future and Andy will try his best to make it happen.
I am a lucky woman because I have met Andy, a so nice man from your website. I really appreciate you for the great opportunity you provide to us! 会员Lenny/1944 (广东)，18 January, 2008
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-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you for making this wonderful marriage possible | Dear Dawn and Richard, I think it was June of 2005 that I stumbled on to your web page. I was intrigued by the stories and testimonials of how people came together and fell in love. Roger from Massachusetts wrote a very eloquent letter describing his experience. As I read his letter, I could see many similarities in the two of us. The first day I wrote three women emails of introduction and very quickly got three responses. I bonded immediately with a lady from Guiyang in the Guizhou Province and continued writing her exclusively. Two months later I was on a plane heading to my impending wedding. I know this could have been disastrous, but I was concerned her daughter would reach her eighteenth birthday and not be eligible to immigrate to the United States. | 
Ping (Zhijun) and David |
| So we were married in China. Jiang Zhijun was the most beautiful person I have ever met. She was everything she portrayed herself to be. She expressed a warm and deep love for me from the very beginning. The three weeks following the marriage we traveled across China spending all our time together falling even deeper in love with each other. Soon it was time for me to leave. My wife quit her job to concentrate on learning English. We stayed in touch talking on the phone every night and sending emails. Five months later I was back in China to spend the Spring Festival with her and her daughter. Along with this wonderful feeling, I developed a concern. I was worried about going through the US Immigration process. I had heard there were many people who were denied Visas to enter the United States. I took no chances and hired an immigration attorney to oversee the application process. I even returned to be with my wife at the US Consulate's Office where she had to pass a stressful interview. That was 2005. It is now 2008 and my stepdaughter is getting ready to graduate from high school in Orlando with a scholarship to a university here in Florida. My wife has a driver's license and freely travels the Central Florida area with the use of a GPS map. She is attending school and her English is improving daily. Both have their green cards and are now permanent residents of the United States. I would say we have had a happy ending, but its just beginning. Thank you for making this wonderful marriage possible. David Caldwell (USA) - 4 January, 2008 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- |
尊敬的晓燕姐:
您好！首先非常感谢您和您的“中诚”网站,给予了我们一个宝贵而出色的平台去寻获真爱，在加入“中诚”短短的两个来月的时间里，我收到了不少男士的来信，他们绝大部分是非常真诚和友好的，我想这是与“中诚”的宗旨和交友严肃性有关。在“中诚”缘分的天空下，我与Andy(会员ID2049)相遇，经过一段时间的认真了解，我们已于十月份第一次美好的见面。现在我们已经确立了男女朋友的关系，并且他计划不久将第二次来中国与我相见。我们都希望最终能幸福地生活在一起。在此，请关闭我的个人档案，真挚地感谢！我们的合照下次发给您们。 会员Lenny/1944 (广东)，2007年10月29日 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I just want to tell you that I have met a wonderful woman off your site Hi, I'm Andy (member 2049). I just want to tell you that I have met a wonderful woman off your site in August, her name is Lenny. I visited China to see her at the beginning of October and we had a lovely time together, although the visit was short and lasted only a week. We communicate every day via e mail and msn and see each other using webcam. I plan to go back to see her in early January. I could never imagine meeting someone like her, she is a wonderful person and we are both very happy and in love. I hope that we have a very long and loving relationship. So just to let you know, I will be taking my profile off your site because I believe I have met my soul mate. Many thanks again for making it possible for us to meet each other. Andy / ID2049 (UK) - 29 October, 2007 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 只要有一种坚定不移的信心、恒心和决心，你将能得到你想拥有的幸福！ | 晓燕你好！ 今天8月25日是我和Michael的大喜的日子，我们结婚了，虽然今天如此的忙碌，我仍然要写信告诉你。8月17日我们去南京办理了涉外婚姻登记，我们幸福地拿到了红色的结婚证书，我们也办好了9月14日飞往新西兰的飞机票。在之前Michael将他家的房子装修一新，为我去新西兰做好了充分的准备，每一件事都那么的顺利，真是高兴。 每天一封英文信从相识到相爱，共同办理签证，双方都为能在一起付出了很多。但是相爱的动力和渴望在一起生活的愿望，在我们遇到任何困难都一一克服了，有情人终成眷属！只要有一种坚定不移的信心、恒心和决心，你将能得到你想拥有的幸福！ 会员Amie/1733 (江苏)，2007年8月25日 | 
Amie and Michael |
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Jihong and Ted | Hello Dawn (Xiao Yan), Jihong and I were married 02-08-07. I enclose a wedding picture of her and I that I give you and Asian Promise to display if you desire. Jihong and I are happy in love and while she has returned to China awaiting immigration papers that have been filed bringing her son soon back with her to America. We talk everyday by phone always checking on well being of the other. It was December of 2005 as I still have the very first letter that we wrote to each other. We both are grateful for your site Asian Promise and the both of you. Ted (USA) and Jihong / 1599 (贵洲) - 17 August, 2007 |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | 晓燕你好! 自上次给你EMAIL到现在有半年多了，这半年来我和KRIS的感情进展很顺利，每天通过MSN视频聊天，感觉就象天天在一起似的。 今年六月十八号，他第二次来上海，我们在一起度过了46天美好的时光，还一起去了西藏旅游。七月的上海虽然酷热难当，但是在我们看来，我们感情的温度要远远高于气温，哈哈! 我们也很相信九型人格这个测试 (Enneagram personality test)，测试的结果是：我们是最容易相处、容易沟通的一对。事实上，我们确实很容易相互理解、相互谅解，有时小小的一个动作，一个眼神我们彼此就能知道对方要做什么，有什么误解我们也能好好的沟通。我们一直觉得彼此就是此生要找的另一半，在一起的那么多个日日夜夜,，我们觉得生活是那么的和谐、那么的默契、那么甜蜜。所以要感谢晓燕给我们提供了网络这个平台，“中诚”让我们能够相遇，让我们找到自己心仪的人。 以前听别人说没有网络没法活，觉得很难以想象，现在看来，我们也到了没有网络没法活的地步了，哈哈！我们的签证办理的也很顺利，目前在等P3，没问题的话估计十一月就能拿到签证。我们计划在今年圣诞节前结婚，到时再告诉你好消息！祝大家都能找到好的归宿! Annie/1808 (上海) 2007年8月6日 | 
我和Kris 在西藏羊湖 |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 亲爱的“中诚”姐妹，我凭我个人经验和你们说一些心理的话 | 
Niko and John | 晓燕你好，
我是1799的Niko，通过“中诚”网站现在我已经找到一位真心爱我的男友，我们已经开始办理未婚妻签证的相关手续，我的男友正在为我努力和辛苦的工作。
当开始上网时我确实抱着怀疑的心态，我不是非常相信网上能够找到爱情。但是我知道网络扩大我的交友范围，我的朋友建议我，找一个好的婚姻代理人帮助我。但是我经过反复思考后觉得幸福是靠自己的双手建立起来的。所以我最终选择“中诚”作为我寻找爱的方式。
我和我的男友是在一种友谊的情况下开始建立和发展我们关系。因为第一次婚姻的失败对我两人都是非常痛苦的人生经历，在做第二次婚姻选择时，我们也是非常谨慎开始，首先的交往时，我们仅做一些简单的沟通和交流。他时常的在生活方面给予我支持和鼓励。他帮助写一些我需要英文资料。我把他作为我的良师益友和咨身顾问，在我时常的通信中我逐渐的发现彼此的优点和共同之处。 |
慢慢的我们开始发现一种超越我友谊的情感变成我们彼此的需要。他开始通过网络帮助我学习英语，开始我们非常困难的交流，有时谈一个很小的事情需要1-2小时。他坚持的忍耐每次的听不懂和不明白我要表达的想法，有时我们感到非常的困难交谈，但是有一种神奇力量鼓励我们，继续不能放弃。经过七个月的交往现在我们的交流已经非常的流利。我们决定在今年的春天见面了，花儿刚刚吐出嫩绿的新芽，我们的感情也此时开花结果。七个月的日日夜夜，每一天交谈都是我们感情的积累，我们互相了解彼此的脾气和个性，我们好似久违的亲人。
亲爱的“中诚”姐妹，我凭我个人经验和你们说一些心理的话，在你们交友的过程中一定要保持良好的心态，不要抱有其它想法开始网络交友，良好的心态是成功的、幸福的保证。
最后，祝福我的同胞姐妹想要找到真爱的女士，“有情人终成眷属”。 Niko / 1799 (沈阳)，2007年7月26日
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 我庆幸自己在最灰暗的时候仍对人类美好的感情抱有信心，我更庆幸自己...... 谢谢“中诚”，由衷地感谢晓燕倾力搭建的这个平台。刚刚和"他"在网上约会完毕，虽然夜已很深，但是我愿意为晓燕和“中诚”的姐妹们贡献一些我的经历。 是啊，又是1年了。我记得偶然邂逅“中诚”到现在算来也有3 - 4年了吧，期间出席过北京的见面会并见到了晓燕，也犹犹豫豫半信半疑地将自己的资料放到“中诚”一段时间，中间也离开了将近1年的时间，但庆幸的是我还是因缘在此。 再次加入“中诚”后，记得我的资料半年到期时，自己做了个英明的决定：更换相片，撤下了身份证上那张“目瞪口呆”状的自己，换上了一张有笑摸样的生活照，并要求重新再登记。就在再登记后的第一天，我收到了他的来信。从认识到现在，我和他一直处在惊喜之中，虽然远隔重洋，我们彼此却又那么融洽、信任、互相吸引。网上通信8个月时，我们约在荷兰见面，渡过了非常美好的几天。他现在正在申请8月份来中国的签证。 从第一次围城中走出已将近11个年头，虽然期间也有几段情愫生成，但唯有这次感受到了非常温暖和非常塌实的爱。一年来，我们越来越长地花时间在网上天南地北地聊天，我更惊诧于自己自己几乎20年不用的英语居然“临阵磨枪，越磨越光”。而同时，因为有爱在滋生，我的笑容从心底荡漾开来，爱在心中生根开花，我感觉非常地幸福。 爱已萌芽，但路仍很长。我会珍惜这次奇迹般的因缘，因为我知道对爱情，你必须拿出最大的智慧、勇气和信心，同时又需要沉得住气，不怕失败，勇于尝试。我庆幸自己在最灰暗的时候，仍对人类美好的感情抱有信心，我更庆幸自己敢于尝试并因此邂逅了晓燕和“中诚”。 最后要说的是：虽然自己平时看的书不少，但晓燕的书确确实实地给了我很多的启迪，它很具有可操作性，比如书中说：要把找寻吾爱当作一件重要的事情去做等等等等......。 希望我的这些肺腑之言也能鼓励那些仍在寻寻觅觅的姐妹们，祝你们最终找到自己的幸福。也请大家祝福我们，让我们辛勤浇灌的的幸福之花 - 花更艳、叶更茂、根更深。同样的祝福，也给晓燕和她的“中诚”。我今后还会一如既往地关注“中诚”。 Helena / 1764 (北京)，2007年7月21日 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 晓燕姐你好.
我是你的会员1718ROSE，6月1日我已经得到了去美国的未婚妻签证，很快就要去美国结婚定居了。晓燕姐，我真诚地感谢你,，我加入“中诚”不久就在你们的帮助下找到了真爱，找到了我的幸福和归宿。
愿姐妹们都能找到自己的真爱，愿“中诚”越办越好！
Rose / 1718 (辽宁)，2007年6月4日
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晓燕姐您好! 我非常感谢您！我是会员1784号，是你使我在“中诚”网站找到真爱，我感到非常的高兴。我现在正在与一名叫Rikki的爱尔兰男士恋爱，他已在200年5月12日来南宁看望我，我们在一起有真诚的爱。如果我们真正结婚，我将再次感谢您! 祝你开心！幸福美满！永远漂亮！ Xiongyan / 1784 (南宁)，2007年5月22日 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | 
Nancy and Greg | 真 诚 地 谢 谢 你！ 晓燕，你好！ 我是会员Nancy，很高兴地告诉你，我已经和我的丈夫于上个月登记结婚。我们很幸福，太多的相同点让我们走到了一起，他的善良、他的真诚深深地感动着我，他给了我很多的关怀和爱，让我觉得自己是最幸运的女人，我会很珍惜我们的这段婚姻。现在他已经回国，并且开始办理我的签证，我们每天仍然在网上见面，每天一个电话。对于我们来说，等待是如此地漫长，但也是如此地甜蜜，不久的将来我们将会生活在一起，相亲相爱，直到永远，我期待着这一天的到来。 这里，我只想真诚地说一声：谢谢你！晓燕，是你帮助我找到了我的真爱，希望你和你的家人永远幸福、安康！也希望更多的姐妹们在“中诚”找到自己的幸福！祝你开心！ Nancy / 1845 (辽宁)，2007年5月12日 |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 我们已经结婚五年多了，感情比刚结婚的时候还好 亲爱的晓燕， 还记得你的第一位结婚的会员吗？ 我是Tracy，我们已经结婚五年多了，感情比刚结婚的时候还好，毕竟一起生活了这么多年，彼此适应和了解多了，现在的我生活得稳定和开心。吃水不忘挖井人，我永远感谢你， 感谢你为我们姐妹所作的。作为一个女人，真正的幸福莫过于有一个爱你、关心你的丈夫。 至今我的丈夫一如既往，他象从前一样的爱我，我很满足了，这就是我最大的幸福。 我在去年11月份正式受聘为一所正规语言学校的中文老师了。目前我有三个班的学生，我非常有兴趣教老外中文，这也为我平静的生活添加了乐趣。回想当初，我为是否来德国顾虑重重，因为我要从头学习一门外语，年龄也不小了，要不是你总鼓励我，我真不会有今天的幸运，我从心里感激你，遇到你是我的幸福。你还好吗？祝福你和你的家人。 Tracy / 1028 (德国/北京)，2007年5月3日 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | %20and%20Edith(1726)3.jpg)
Edith and Chris | I married my wonderful special man today Dear Dawn Xiaoyan,
It was a really special day today. The weather couldn't be better. On this warm and sunshiny day, I married my wonderful special man in the register office in England. We both are very happy.
Thank you very much indeed for your best wishes. I sent you this photo to share our happiness.
Best wishes Edith / 1726 (广东)，2007年4月18日，18 April, 2007 |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 非常感谢晓燕让我找到了幸福 Thanks to your great website | 
Amie and Michael | 晓燕你好 我是1733会员Amie，我现在和Michael在苏州度假，我们已经定婚了。 我们从11月8日相识有4个多月了，你还记得吗？11月14日我参加你在上海的会员见面会时，我才和Michael仅交往了一个星期。那时我们就感到有一种默契，认识20天Michael就让我关闭我的资料，你没有问我为什么那么早，因为你相信我的感觉。我们没有打电话和视频，我们仅仅写信就足够了，当时有在场的会员提醒我要先视频再见面，我没有那么做，因为每个人的情况是不同的，我知道Michael是个非常忙碌的人，我不想占用他太多的时间，我总是为他考虑，我不想破坏彼此好的感觉。我们从一开始认识就总是谈论如何见面，现在我们谈论的话题是如何生活在一起，建立牢固的爱情基础是最重要的，志趣相投、两情相悦是何等重要，当幸福来临的时候，你就能尽情的享受爱情的甜蜜。 非常感谢晓燕让我找到了幸福。到我们正式结婚时，一定再寄给你我们的婚纱照。呵呵 会员Amie/1733 (江苏)，2007年3月 |
Hi Dawn & Richard, My name is Michael. I live in NZ. I met Amie (1733) on your website Asian Promise last November. I have spent all of March in China with Amie and we have decided to get married in October. - November. this year. Thanks to your great website that I have found this beautiful woman who will be my future wife. Regards Michael (New Zealand) - March, 2007 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 是他让我实现了我一直只能在梦里想的事情 - 坐中国传统的花轿 晓燕姐你好：
| 真是不好意思，我老公3月14日刚回美国，来了10天。我最近是有点忙，你说的没错，我老公是一个有耐心，非常能理解我的好男人。我每每和人们提起我老公时，真是很自豪，很幸福，我是一个很幸运的女人，恩，他也总说他是一个很幸运的男人，他说：“Since meeting my wife Li, my love and respect for her has grown tremendously. She is the perfect mate for me. When we are together, she makes me laugh, and lifts my spirit. She is the happiest person I know. She is kind ,gentle and respectful of other people. When she smiles she warms my heart. I love her so much. She has made me the happiest man in the world.” 今天他对我说昨天晚上做了一个梦，梦见我和他在一起，醒来发现我不在他身边－－他一宿没睡。虽然只是一个梦，真的让我好感动，让我真正体会到牛郎和织女天各一方的感觉，彼此相互珍惜是多么的重要。就是这样自从我们2006年的9月中旬他给我写的第一封信起，我们每天必聊天和打电话一到两个小时，甚至三个小时，他的真诚深深地打动了我。其实他和我联系不久就向我求婚，直到十一月初我答应他和他结婚。我希望在中国结婚和举行中国古典式婚礼，他答应了我，还让我高兴的是我们还要举行一个西式婚礼。在准备婚礼的过程中我的朋友和同事都很关心我，总是对我说：“他能来吗？”，“你可得小心点，别上当受骗”等等猜疑的话。 | 
Nicole and Egel Dougles |
准备了将近一个月的婚礼，终于在2006年12月3日这个中国的黄道吉日喜气洋洋的氛围中举行了。我感觉真的是穿越时空，时光倒流，让我回到了我们只能在电视里看到的远古时代：凤冠霞帔做花轿、大红色的状元袍骑骏马、跨马鞍子、迈火盆，引来了很多看看热闹的人和当地的媒体，有很多的老人都是第一次看到这样的婚礼。感谢我的老公，是他让我实现了我一直只能在梦里想的事情 - 坐中国传统的花轿。 我的老公给我的家人和朋友及同事印象非常好，他们都说这么复杂繁琐和长时间的婚礼真是够难为他了，他们真心地祝愿我当一个美国的好媳妇。婚后的生活更是让我感动，他第二次来中国，我怕他吃不惯中餐，尽量让他吃中国餐馆的西餐，我也尽量和他一起吃，但几天下来我几乎是便秘，他向我道歉。没想到的当他第三次来中国，他要完全吃中餐，饺子、面条、烧茄子啦，他想尽快融入和适应我的生活方式，当然我也想尽快融入和适应他的生活方式。 婚后的生活更让我感到我们内心的相互默契，一个动作、一个眼神，我们一起做饭、一起刷碗，当然早晨都是他先起来做饭，很好吃的哦！我真正理解老公这个词的含义。平时，我们会及时沟通一些双方不太理解的一些问题。让我感慨的是虽然我们天各一方，但每天他都会告诉我他在哪里，在干什么，我也回告诉他我在哪里，我在干什么。每天打电话，听到他的声音，我不觉得他离我有多远。
晓燕姐，我愿意和大家共同分享我的快乐和幸福，在此我也祝愿“中诚”成为更多中国女性走向幸福生活的平台。
会员Nicole/1723 (天津)，2007年3月
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | 告诉你好消息，我结婚了! 晓燕你好， 我是1740号Helena， 告诉你一个好消息，我结婚了。我的男朋友TERRY是去年7月在“中诚”网上认识的，来自美国新泽西洲。我们写信打电话交往了半年多，彼此感觉挺好。他2月25日晚到香港，2月28日早晨我们去深圳市福田区民政局办理了结婚登记手续。我们还拍了婚纱照片，现发几张我们的照片给你。 我已经找到我的爱情和婚姻，真诚地谢谢你和“中诚”，希望“中诚”越办越好，更多的姐妹在这里找到自己的幸福。 会员Helena/1740 (深圳)，2007年2月 | 
Helena and Terry |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 我和美国老公Egel Dougles已于去年12月在中国结婚 晓燕姐你好， 我和美国老公Egel Dougles已于去年12月在中国结婚，很遗憾你没有能来参加我们的婚礼，失去了宣传“中诚”的大好机会。当日，有很多媒体前来采访，其中有：“天津日报”、“中国石油报”和“大港石油报”，请见网上的相关报导：大港油田女“网”来洋女婿（图）--中国石油报。我们的结婚录相已制成范本，我会寄给你。我现在在北京学英语，等签证去美国，估计要等6个月左右。 非常感谢晓燕姐和“中诚”，我和我的先生随后会将我们的爱情故事写给你，与姐妹们分享。 会员Nicole/1723 (天津)，2007年2月 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I can tell you this is a much more powerful and consistent way to meet Chinese women Hello Dawn and Richard,
Sorry for the late reply. Yes, I was one of your members-1229-who listed as a free member around October last year. I never had to pay subscribe, because I guess I was lucky--no, for *sure* I was lucky, as I found my match, lady member 1725 (named Li), during that free period.
Following a nearly 3 month daily email conversation that began early after my sign up (from her initial note), I visited her in Shenzhen over this past Christmas. The visit was wonderful, we both confirmed our truthfulness, and that we really love each other. We were only briefly nervous, after a couple of hours it was very easy, as if we had known each other for quite some time. I will return to see her during Chinese New Year in a few weeks, and we keep in contact by phone/webcam, text/instant message on a daily basis (and occasional email). Marriage is not far away I think. She is a truly a lovely woman.
Your service did not produce this happy situation, but it positively enabled it, and I feel it simply could not have happened otherwise. I had spent nearly 3 months total on work assignments in Shenzhen prior to signing up with Asian Promise, and I can tell you this is a much more powerful and consistent way to meet Chinese women than by any chance encounter with a (English speaking) woman in China, or by introduction for that matter.
So your caring, excellent work deserves support and compensation. Not everything should be free on the Internet. And that only the woman should pay, who comes from a much more modest economic circumstance than I, seemed not quite fair. Finding my likely lifetime love through your site has no calculation in monetary terms, but I feel better by making the contribution that I have. I am unsure what a fair donation should be, but I am certain in my case it is not less than what I gave so far.
I apologize for the length of this note, but here are a few comments regarding your service, as they apply to my perceptions:
1. I thought no one will be interested in my profile.
After my picture/profile was posted, I thought no woman would ever send me any note, and I had time to consider my "plan". However, I was shocked to see invites come in very soon. Before I had any chance to decide who I wanted to send invites to.
2. Play the field: not.
I read with some amusement the dating tips from your site several weeks after I had signed up and was corresponding with Li on a daily basis. The advice makes sense, I did initially correspond with a few women, but I discovered very soon that it took a major investment in time for me to compose emails and correspond with even one lady, let alone several. My amusement was "where do these guys get the time to really know someone by email--for obstensibly marriage--and play the field with several women?" I actually became anxious over the invites I kept receiving, since I knew I could not possibly keep up with it. It became a worry how to handle these invites.
I spent easily nearly 2 hours to compose email--this was nearly every night--to collect my thoughts, think carefully over my words, to try and make sure I will be understood, etc. It became another job in some respect, one I very much enjoyed, but a real commitment. On top of that, I was taking Mandarin class a few days a week, and there was homework. It became clear to me it was impossible to do that for several women. In the case of Li, she lives in Shenzhen by pure luck, and the start was made somewhat easier because we used that as a common point of conversation, but that very quickly passed and we talked on a very personal basis for nearly the entire time. So I decided to invest the time getting to know her, and if it did not work out, then I would restart the whole thing and try again with someone else. So after maybe two weeks of correspondence, I corresponded solely with her. I asked Li when I visited her how long it took to write the emails, and she also said it took a couple of hours to do each one. (Her English is quite good also.)
I thought I might be overboard on this email, so I asked a colleague of mine (who met his Chinese wife in Shenzhen by introduction), how long he spent on emails to her when they were corresponding when he was back at the states, before they to got married. Same answer, 1-2 hours/email, for the same reasons as me. He told me he actually felt much relief when they switched to phone/web cam from email, since it was so much easier than the pressure of composing emails. But phone/web cam seems to work best only after you know each other for a time.
The few women I did correspond with in the beginning convinced me yours is a special site, that the women are genuine and sincere, and in many cases, extraordinarily talented as well in their professions. Many of these women I could see being friends with, they are truly exceptional, and very nice people overall.
3. I thought Email won't work
This is my first time at Internet dating, which truth be told, I thought was very unlikely to work to meet anyone, and that sharing feelings and emotions over email would not be practical. I thought you need physical presence to develop feelings and intimacy. On these points I was totally wrong. However, after 2-3 months it appeared to both of us we must meet, if only to sort out if we were liars, or instead we are the people we appeared to be over email. It is interesting that on both her side and mine, friends were somewhat skeptical, and cautioned us to "be careful". It turns out I think that is good advice, but that is why I made the trip, to see if this was real or not. So while I was surprised at the depth of the connection one can make with another person over email, a physical reality check is essential to confirm feelings and expectations.
Thanks for listening, and for running such a great site. Don Grubbs (USA) - 29 January, 2007 Dear Don,
Thank you very much for you well-composed reply. We would like to publish it on our web page. It would be nice to have a photo of you and Li together to go with it. We are so happy to know that you have found your match through Asian Promise and we sincerely wish you and Li a happy ending.
It is very nice to hear your positive comments for our ladies and our site. We understand that service like Asian Promise should charge men equal amount of money to women at least. However it is difficult from its reality. Comparing to Western men, who can chose love from any country in the world, Chinese women have less choice. Moreover, people from an advanced country are always cautious to find someone from a less advanced country. To be able to encourage more men to date our wonderful Chinese women and create more choice to our women, as well as to ensure the sincerity of the men, we are currently offering semi-free service to men. It seem works well so far. Your case has approve it too (we assume that you wouldn't bother to try your luck if you are required to pay to enter our service). The recent launched US law of IMBRA has made even more difficult for us to charge membership fee from men.
We hope that more and more men will find out the quality and value of Asian Promise and will support us through a contribution like you. From our women's point of view (we use it to help our Chinese women to balance up), men will need to make the effort to see her in person to make the relationship works eventually (it is safe and practical). Therefore the effort that women have made for start will be balanced in the end.
It is interesting to see your skeptical attitude at the beginning, your effort to spend on emails and your confidence in the end. For sure, every good outcome is from a hard work, which apply to love and relationship as well no matter how you meet. No questions that Internet has brought much more love choice for people and an excellent way for people to meet internationally.
It is also very grateful to hear your confirmation on our dating tips from your true experience. If you are interested in Dawn's book "Chinese Women in Love and Marriage" (please see it at: e-book), we are more than happy to give you a copy of e-book. Just simply let us know your "unlock code" after your download.
Thank you very much for your kind reply and your generous contribution to Asian Promise again.
Have a good trip to China! Dawn and Richard - 30 January, 2007
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Chris and I are very happy together in England | Dear Dawn Xiaoyan,
Chris and I are very happy together in England. It is a beautiful country. I like here. Our home is in a nice little town Colchester. I am adjusting well to my new life. We went to see my future in laws on the first day. My father and mother in law are very nice people. On the following day, we went to London to see Thames River and Buckingham Palace etc. We had two meals in China Town and bought a bag of Chinese food home. I think city is good for travel, but maybe town is a better place to live in. I like Colchester. ...
I miss my family too, but we have on line chat every day since I came here. I will write you more when I can.
Edith / 1726 (广东)，2007年1月
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Edith and Chris |
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 晓燕姐您好， 我是1768 号会员，我现在已经与来自美国的Mac在北京见面确立了恋爱关系，并且开始办理K1签证。如果我们进展顺利，我会通知您并告诉您我们的爱情故事。 会员Rainbow/1768 (北京)，2007年1月 ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hello Asian Promise, This is member 1809 Linlin. I had met my boy friend from the U.S. on 1-9-07 and we were a great match. We are now engaged, please remove my profile from Asian Promise. Thanks for helping me to find my mate. 会员Linlin/1809 (广西)，January 2007 (2007年1月) ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | 
Annie and Kris | We are so happy to tell you our good news Dear Dawn XiaoYan, We are so happy to tell you our good news. We have met in person in Dec 23rd, and we found we are very well matched. We want to spend the rest of our lives together. We like to think we got each other for Christmas presents. We have had great time together. We would like to send our picture to you. We like you to share our happiness. We just got back from the ancient water town Zhouzhuang. We will send you a picture of us in Zhouzhang later. We would greatly appreciate if you could post our pictures we sent you on Asian Promise website.
Kris (ID1209) & Annie/1808 (上海) January 2007 (2007年1月) |
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Dawn Xiaoyan, Happy new year! How is your holiday going? Excellent, I hope. With my fiancé Chris, I had the most wonderful Christmas and New Year in my life. At the beginning of our trip, we spent a few days in Hong Kong. We bought our beautiful wedding rings in Nathan Road. Next we went to mainland and spent a lovely and quality time with my parents. We submitted my fiancé visa application on 27 December. At the end of our trip, we returned to Hong Kong. We took a pleasure boat around Victoria Harbour, and went to Lan Kwai Fong for nice drinks. We also went to the well-known temple Wong Tai Sin to pay tribute to the god. We sincerely wished to get the visa soon. On New Year's Eve, we celebrated for the New Year with many people in Tsim Sha Tsui. Although we didn't go to many places of interest; however, both of us were very happy, no matter where we went to, and what we did. We really enjoyed spending every minute with each other, like walking hand-in-hand in town, and looking at each other's eyes when having dinner. It was fantastic! Both of us cried on the day of his departure. I felt like crying on all my way back. Without him, the big part of me seemed missing. The first thing I ran back home was to open my computer to see whether he had a good flight back. As soon as I heard his voice, I became cheerful again. Now both of us are anxiously looking forward to being together. We need each other so much. My passport has been sent to the British embassy on the day I applied. They said there would be news in just 10 days. Today is the sixth day. I hope everything will go on smoothly as expected. Thank you again, Xiaoyan. You are a wonderful and kind person. It is you who has given me the opportunity to find my true love. Both of us thank you very much. I sincerely wish happiness with you and your family forever. 会员 Edith / 1726 (广东)，2007年1月 第1页(Page 1) 第2页(Page 2) 第3页(Page 3) 第4页(Page 4) |
