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Kare (Finland)

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由衷地感谢晓燕和你的“中诚”，祝你永远成功

- June, 2004 - 

会员1358/Cynthia (珠海)

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I can not put into words my gratitude to you for bringing us together!

- May, 2004 - 

Dear Asian Promise,

Thank you for everything you do here. Last year I met Wei Wei (1293). I had a special feeling about her as soon as I saw her picture and read about her. We are also both Christains. After getting to know each other using email and phone calls I went to China to meet her. I have never before had such an exciting time in my life as this. All her family are very nice and special people and she herself was really Sweetest and most fun woman I have ever know right from the begining. She is very outgoing and very honest and very romantic woman. We just get along so well together now since I have been to visit her 3 times and she will soon be receiving her visa and we will be married soon after that. I will always love her. 

I can not put into words my gratitude to you for bringing us together! Thanks again and Best wishes.

Dan (U.S.A.)

David (U.S.A.)

谢谢你们给我带来如此好的男人!! (Thank you for bring him to me!!) 

- March, 2004 -

会员1398/Bonnie (深圳)

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Please let me know if I can be of assistance in any other way

- February, 2004 -

Hi Dawn,

I understand you are going to Beijing in April.  I have sent (via a Chinese attorney in Ohio) a Fiancee Visa request to the new Homeland Security (the old INS / Immigration).  Nebraska is the slowest of the group of offices, but I am hoping my congressmans office will be of assistance, especially in light of the fact that I had a prior application.  I will keep you posted.   Wenjie and I will be glad to provide you with letters and photos once we know that she is going for her exit interview.  I also want you to know how great Wenjie is.  She truly is as sweet of a woman as I could ever hope for and also so very smart.  I feel more love for her with each day and e-mail.  I think we will be perfect together and I am grateful for your service.

I see some new and pretty faces on your site, but I am surprised that there are not more people in your "lovers" section? Perhaps there are others like us who are in the process now?  I hope that is the case.

I will also keep you posted as to how this attorney handles things and if it was worth the added costs.  I do think that most intelligent people can complete the forms but it only takes a minor mistake to create a major delay. 

That is all for now.  Please let me know if I can be of assistance in any other way.

Thanks again and best wishes,

Jay (U.S.A.)

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I have found her to be perfect in every way

- January, 2004 -

  David (U.S.A.)

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Those of us that have Fallen in Love want everyone to know about it 

- January, 2004 -

  Billy (U.S.A.)　

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we are getting married in May!! 

- January, 2004 -　

  Francis (Ireland)

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会员1327/Sophie (沈阳)

“中诚”让我找到我的爱人

- 2004年1月 -

会员1352/ShaSha (湖北)

有缘千里来相会

- 2003年11月 -

会员1282/cici (南宁)

我的新生活 (My new life)

- 2003年10月 -

会员1028/Tracy (北京)

Far, far away across the sea... there lives my love

July, 2003

Far, far away across the sea,

Where white houses and sea gulls meet,

There lives my love.

Far, far away is my love,

And far are our memories,

And far away to you my love fies.

The day will come my love,

When we will meet,

And we will join our memories.

Milan, Australia

走出沙漠，畅饮甘泉 (July, 2003)

- 2003年7月 -

1926年，英国皇家学院院士肯·莱文在沙漠中发现一个叫比塞尔的小村庄，从这里走出沙漠只需要三天，但却从来没有人走出去过。在调查过后，他终于发现，那里的人之所以无法走出沙漠，是因为他们不认识北斗星，不能在茫茫的大漠里准确地辨识方向，他们所走的路线实际上不是一条直线而是一条弧线，因而无论向哪个方向走，最后都会回到原地。肯·莱文教会了一个叫阿古塔儿的当地人，让他在沙漠中根据北斗星的位置辨识方向，阿古塔儿就成了那里第一个走出沙漠的人。

在我们的生命旅途中也有这样的沙漠，很多人走不出去，并不是因为沙漠太大，大到我们根本无法走出去，而是因为我们不识北斗。

我今年40岁，毕业于国内名牌医科大学，在沈阳一所大医院任急诊科副主任医师，并在医学院任兼职副教授。8年前我丈夫因病去逝，我一直与女儿生活在一起。几年来我的生活就像一个定了时的钟，每日上班抢救病人、带教学，回家后做家务、辅导女儿学习，几乎每一个认识我的人都佩服我事业成功，是个女强人。只有我自己知道我的生活既充实又残缺，女强人也是女人，没有爱的滋润，女人的生活便是一片沙漠。我虽然有很好的社会地位和经济收入，但每每想到再走一步，我真的很没有自信，因为青春已逝，我已不再年轻漂亮。我衣食无忧，只求和另一半能有更多精神上的共鸣，但必须承认，社会上很多再婚男女大都或多或少存在功利思想，找一个真正关心自己的人，很难。

今年三月中旬，偶然遇到“中诚”网站，倍感亲切。抱着试试看的心理，我将个人资料和相片寄了过去。之后几次更改个人资料和更换相片，每一次，晓燕女士都不厌其烦，尽心尽力去做，使我非常感动。今年五月中旬我便收到了我的男友Milan通过“中诚”寄给我的个人资料，他是位欧洲人，小时候移居澳大利亚，受过很好的教育，在E-mail和电话交往的过程中我深深地感到他的真诚和耐心，在我发给他的一封信中，有这样一段话：“你的相片就放在我的床边，虽然我从未见过你，我却深深感受到你的爱，你是那么和善、有爱心，像你这样的好男人真的很难遇到，你是个珠宝，是每个女人的梦。

50天后，也就是今年的7月3号，Milan如期抵沈，当我手捧鲜花，在机场与他相遇时，我一点儿都没有陌生的感觉，我们彼此像相爱多年、久别重逢的恋人，有说不完的话。Milan，博学多才、风趣幽默又有爱心，他良好的教养和绅士风度表现在我们在一起时的点点滴滴，他和我13岁的女儿相处也很融洽，Milan打算在沈住上一段时间，等我和女儿的手续办好，三人一同回澳大利亚。

我的生活终于翻开了新的一页，我每日沐浴爱的雨露，如饮甘泉。饮水思源，我深深的感谢带我走出沙漠，畅饮甘泉的晓燕女士，我要告诉姐妹们，欲寻真爱，“中诚”便是中国单身女性的北斗星。

会员1327/Sophia (沈阳)

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会员1279/Lily (广西北海)

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这里是值得我们信赖和充满爱的地方 (May, 2003)

- 2003年5月 - 

会员1306/Xiaoyang (沈阳)

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“中诚”让我找到了生活中的另一半 (May,2003)

Weiwei and Dan

- 2003年5月 - 

我想告诉您通过贵网站，我认识了来自美国的一位男士，他非常真诚，我们每天互通e-mail 并且每周通电话，来加强彼此的了解。上个月，他特地来中国看我，我们见面后彼此感觉都很好，都认为对方正是自己所寻找的另一半，临走时我们确定了恋爱关系。现在他已回美国，我们仍保持每天的e-mail以及每周的电话联系。

虽然我和您从没见过面，但我深深感到您是真诚的希望每位姐妹找到真爱。非常感谢您和“中诚”给我的机会，让我找到了生活中的另一半。再次感谢您 ！

会员1293/Wei Wei (上海)

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Dedicated and Written for Susan

　
Is like a seed, not a seed of a flower, But the seed of a Red Wood Tree that lives for centuries, Once the seed is planted it needs to be nurtured so it can get a healthy start in life, If it is not given a healthy start it will wither and die or be stunted and never reach its fullest potential, However if given a good start it will take hold with deep roots and grow stronger each day, During its life time it will suffer many hardships as shown by its scars and if it is not to severe it will come back and continue growing until the day it dies, But even then it stands as a monument to what it was, In time it will fade and decay, But even then it will give of it's self to help it's offspring get their healthy start in life.

Love with seed in heart, Darrell, U.S.A

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Such a special occasion

April 2003

 Thank you for helping me find the girl I will spend the rest of my life with. I have been searching for my soulmate for so long, and then I discovered Asian Promise web site. 
  We met through Asian Promise in November 2002. Since that time, we became very close by contacting each other by telephone and on the internet. 
  In March 2003, I came to China to meet my girl and we were married just a few days later. We had a traditional Chinese wedding in her home town. Lots of friends came to the wedding, it was such a special occasion. 
  I am writing this email from China with my beautiful wife, Lily, sitting right here beside me. I know we will be very happy together in our future.

　
   It was a very lonely night for me when I decided to play on the computer and maybe try to meet an Asian girl.  I thought it might be nice to find a friend that I could write to and tell my heart to. Getting divorced after being married for 22 years had really taken it's toll on me. The divorce had devastated me. I was feeling so very alone and very sad.
   All I wanted was someone who I could write to, maybe even talk to on the phone sometimes. I had heard that Asian women had a different attitude than American women did. I thought I would find out for myself. I didn't really like being so alone and I did feel so very alone.
   Somehow I found Asian Promise (www.asianpromise.com) and began looking at the different profiles Asian women had posted. There were many women to look at and so I wrote a letter (e-mail) and sent it to several of them. It was the same letter to each. I wondered who if anyone would answer to such a lonely and depressed man.  I was 50 years old now and in debt. I was feeling so lost in life. Yet still I sent the letters.
   By the grace of God I received this e-mail from a girl named 'Vanessa.'  Her name sure didn't sound Asian to me, but her profile said she was Chinese and her photo looked as if she was Chinese. But a Chinese girl? From communist Red China?  It felt a little bit scary to contact someone from Red China That's what I had been taught to call the country of China. 
   We began writing to each other quite a bit. I had so much hurt in my heart that to be able to release it to this girl who was so far away from me was truly a blessing. The many miles between us was more than enough to let me feel safe and secure. At that time I couldn't trust any woman. I just wanted a friend. It seemed to me that I had found one with this Chinese woman whose real name I found out was Xujing. Now that name sounded Asian to me.
   For many years it had been a dream of mine to go to the great wall of China.  I never imagined that such a dream could come true for me.  It was so far away and it would cost so much money to go to see it. Of course after a while I did ask Xujing if she had ever seen the Great wall of China. To my surprise she told me of course she had, it was right there in Beijing. I thought she was so lucky.  I dreamed of going to China to see the Great Wall myself.
   A few weeks later Xujing invited me to visit China. She even said she would bring me to the Great Wall. She told me she would take good care of me, that she could do many things for me if I came to meet her. But to be honest, my desire to go to China was not to meet Xujing. All I thought about was going to see the Great Wall.  I had no desire for a girlfriend or any relationship more than just as a friend. I didn't want to lead my Chinese friend on nor did I want to try to take advantage of her. I was very honest in all of my communications to Xujing. I love adventure. I love romance too, but I wasn't ready for any more romance in my life. I'd settle for some adventure though. There were a million reasons not to go to China and only one reason to go - to see the Great Wall. I could not afford the time and I had no money. But I still wanted to go.  I searched online and began the process of finding out more about travelling to this foreign exotic land of mystery. But I was scared about it. I mean, I was going to communist China to see a girl who I only knew from the computer. I had heard so many bad stories about these relationships and meetings through the computer. I found out was that to stay with a Chinese family in Beijing, I would need to get a special license/permit from the Beijing police.  OK, no problem. I was going to Beijing to see the Great Wall. I was just going to see a friend, that's all. A friend who was going to bring me to the Great Wall.

   As I traveled for 17 hours on the plane, I got to know the flight attendants. I like to talk. They thought it was quite exciting about what I was doing. They told me that they had seen many people travel as I was to meet someone they had met on the computer. As long as both of the people had been totally honest with each other, they said, there was a good chance that things would go good. The flight attendants wished me luck and gave me a new full bottle of American wine for me to share with my new Chinese friends.  They were all so nice to me and I enjoyed the flight very much even though it took so long. My adventure to China had really begun in earnest.
   Excited and ready for the best, hopefully, I arrived in Beijing. Somehow above all the noise from an International airport, I heard the small sound of Xujing's voice calling my name. There she was, for real. She was a woman too thankfully. She had not lied to me yet! She even looked cuter than her photo and she was all smiles. Her English was good enough for me too. Against my protests, she took me to her mother's home where she said I would stay for the week. I told her about the police license I thought I needed and that I would just stay in a hotel. But she laughed and told me it was no problem. She said that it was OK, things were not like that in Beijing now.